I recently interviewed with a church on the South Carolina coast, and the conversation with the gentleman I would have been working with left me a little upset.
On a good day, at most I’m a four and a half point Calvinist. Other days, I’m maybe a three-point or at most four-point Calvinist. I still just can’t figure out where I fall on the Limited Atonement question, so I often oscillate back and forth. I didn’t become a Calvinist by just jumping on a bandwagon; I arrived here after throwing myself against the Gospel of John and the Letter to the Romans for about 2 years. For reasons of biblical faithfulness, I hold to a Reformed theology.
The gentleman I would have been working for on the coast is an all-out Arminian. These two teams of Calvinist and Arminian have been holding different theological positions for several hundred years - the argument between them ain’t new by any stretch.
So as I sat and talked to this man, he was the most hostile person to Reformed theology that I’ve ever met. I was actually taken aback at the amount of venom he spoke with; to be honest, I was shocked, since I’m not that angry about folks holding to Arminian theology. I believe since I arrived at being a Calvinist by a lot of theological reflection, then obviously an Arminian must have as well. I think that stands to reason.
At any rate, our conversation got me thinking down a particular vein: why can’t we get along? I’m convinced that there are good, biblical reasons to be Arminian in your theology. I don’t think that the Arminian position says anything the Bible doesn’t say, I just don’t think it says everything the Bible does. Nevertheless, it’s not heresy; this is an in-family debate. I can’t think of a single Calvinist I know personally that would berate or browbeat someone of a Wesleyan Arminian theology. Why is it then that Calvinists have the reputation of being bullies, when it’s the Arminians I know that are hostile? I just don’t understand it.
There are only three questions I have to have answered to be able to work with someone:
- Do you love Jesus?
- Do you love the Bible?
- Do you desire to see people reached with the gospel?
As long as the answer to all three questions is yes, I can work with you, no matter what you believe about election and predestination. As long as we both love the Bible, we can disagree, and still have a place to go back to to settle our disagreements, since we both hold Scripture to be the final authority.
Has anbody else experienced this?