she looks happier without me…
2008-01-07
So I had to stop by my now ex-girlfriends apartment today to pick up some shirts that I still had over there.
So I walked to the door and knocked, so I could return her spare car key and pick up my shirts, and when she opened the door (piano student diligently practicing), she looked incredibly happy…way happier than I can remember her looking for 2 years.
So what is it about me and our relationship that seems to have drug her down for 2 years? As boyfriends go, was I that god-awful? What in the relationship could have been so bad?
Or do I just individually suck so much that leaving me has been the happiest moment in years for her.
I just honestly don’t know…
Hey men I am going through same thing right now. My girl broke up with me 4 weeks ago and she seems to be on a high because of it. I am 25 now and she is 22 and we were each others first long term relationship and first sex. We were together for three and a half years and she told me that she knew she was going up break up with me for over a year, but never tried to talk to me about it. I guess I She finally got the courage to do it and now she is doing new things and tells me she feels she has already moved on. I think it is partly a front to show me how well she can do without me. After trying to get her back and failing I have decided to cut off contact with her. In time maybe she will miss me apologize and come back or I will have already moved on, either way it will have a good outcome. Hang in there buddy im sure she isnt as happy as she seems to be, she will come down off her high and miss you whether she tells you or not. Just try to move on and dont contact her if it makes you feel bad to here how well she is doing. Good Luck